tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059464.post8724716436266746028..comments2024-03-28T00:47:49.654-07:00Comments on Which Way to Baby?: Trying to Reason With an InfantRebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09564075022074996137noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059464.post-82070431135067875352019-01-18T03:51:26.112-07:002019-01-18T03:51:26.112-07:00Stunning, Fantastic its looks so astounding. Much ...Stunning, Fantastic its looks so astounding. Much obliged to you for sharing this article and keep doing awesome. <a href="https://flooring-dubai.ae/hardwood-flooring/" rel="nofollow">Hardwood Flooring Cost</a> <br />Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16782143922446488946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059464.post-91428225114686740202012-06-05T05:25:25.523-07:002012-06-05T05:25:25.523-07:00That's tough, and I don't know how your mo...That's tough, and I don't know how your mom takes instruction as far as how to make the situation better, but I imagine Miss A can sense your mom is tense or reallllly trying? I honestly don't know, but I also think the blanket idea or maybe a toy that plays soft music would be a good comfort or distraction for Miss A while your mom holds her. Hang in there, sounds like she has a lot of people who love her :)Libbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06957887707439694944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059464.post-42096580947360211992012-06-04T13:17:43.605-07:002012-06-04T13:17:43.605-07:00I have no idea how to reason with an infant, but I...I have no idea how to reason with an infant, but I do know that for someone with BPD, validating, validating, validating can help her feel (at least momentarily) less insecure. And also validate that it's hard to have the baby cry when she holds her, etc. <br /><br />The scent idea seems like another good one. <br /><br />good luck. thinking of you.Mohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01671855540466269330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059464.post-83661899905911086072012-06-04T10:23:05.255-07:002012-06-04T10:23:05.255-07:00I'm of the opinion babies are sensitive to blo...I'm of the opinion babies are sensitive to blood pressure/heart rate and whatever else happens physiologically when people are nervous/excited/etc. Since it sounds like your mom is placing so much importance in A liking her...it's likely she's anxious. And Miss A is sensing that and doesn't like it. Now, as far as how to convince your mom to be calm and think soothing thoughts instead of being full of nervous energy...I'm not sure. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059464.post-39384592060436373002012-06-04T07:54:08.720-07:002012-06-04T07:54:08.720-07:00I'll second the scent idea... does your mom we...I'll second the scent idea... does your mom wear a perfume? Or have heavily-scented clothes due to detergents/fabric softeners? Just an idea.Hopeful Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15339776324264791028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059464.post-64540427284937262622012-06-04T06:32:18.812-07:002012-06-04T06:32:18.812-07:00Well, hopefully your Mom won't figure out that...Well, hopefully your Mom won't figure out that she's OK with other people and it's just her...otherwise she'll just be more frustrated! I can't imagine that saying "no no no" helps much...does your daughter have a special blanket or cuddly that she can have near her when your Mom is holding her? Maybe if something smells familiar and good she'll start to associate more positives with your Mom. Or if she likes to go outside, maybe your Mom can be the one to take her outside? I'm not much help here, we did not have infants this young ever.MyTwoLineshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11488860357456329714noreply@blogger.com